Friday, August 11, 2006

Something that urks me...

So there is ONE thing that REALLY urks my nerves and that is when someone tells me, "oh I didn't call you because I figured you needed your space..."
WHAT...don't assume no crap like that when it comes to me...
KEY point: YOU figured...you didn't ask
WHY? Because IF I did in fact want MY space I would have TOLD you that I want my space...IF that was the case...but IT wasn't! And normally isn't!

I think to often than not, people decide that they want to treat people as they want to be treated...now I know you are sitting there reading this and thinking, but TC, isn't that what people are supposed to do...treat people as they want to be treated...and as a whole YES that is how we should treat each other "love thy neighbor as thyself"

BUT this is NOT the answer for everything....I am an emotional person...like seriously emotional...and for the most part I am pretty strong...but stuff like my parents health and my finances, can stress me really out! I work really hard and its extremely expensive to live in the DC Metro area and be young and single...so sometimes the money can get a little funny...and that just BLOWS me beyond anything that anyone can imagine...really....I mean I have maintained (read everything is everything) but still sometimes things can get the best of me...

So I say all that to say, that when dealing with people you HAVE to know the type of person that THEY are...like for example, my Dad...when he is really pi$$ed leave him lone...period....my brother the same way...ME...altough I have a temper and an attitude like the MEN in my family...I don't like to be left alone...I want someone I can talk to and vent...BUT IF and WHEN I DO want to be left ALONE I say it!

So don't say...to ME...a person that likes to talk, vent, yell, scream, cry...whatever when she is mad or just BECAUSE (I KNOW that I love to talk)...don't tell me that YOU thought I needed space....WHAT...whatever...I mean I can admit when I am vexed at someone...yeah I am pretty vexed because I don't get vexed over petty stupid stuff I get vexed off of principled type of events...like its the principlaty brother...I know you feel me...

another thing is that I constantly feel like I am ALWAYS there for folks but as soon as its time for someone to listen to MY issues (which I normally have begun to keep them to myself because no one listens other than my momma and my couple of really close girls)...when its finally time for someone to listen to you...they are NO WHERE to be found...WTH???? Crazy...

Like I said yesterday, I got so much stuff to do I can't even keep up with me....so when something hits the fan I need to know that I can depend on folks...but I am learning MORE and MORE that you can only depend on GOD and your loved ones....That really leaves no opportunity for me to let anyone else in because FOR WHAT???

But dag on T, everyone isn't perfect give people a chance...

Alright...as long as you don't say those crazy words to me "I THOUGHT THAT YOU NEEDED SOME SPACE" Puh leeze you just didn't want to be bothered...that's it and that's all....that's how I feel, I could be wrong...but hey...for me right now

It is what it is....

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ok, so I'm bored at work on a Sat. and here I am reading your blog and then I go to Thursday's blog and it starts off with....

"You ever just get tired....like you don't want to be bothered you don't want to do nothing you don't want to see nothing...you just want to go home and just sit and be still...you ever feel like that?"


This is probably why someone assumed you didn't want to be bothered T.C.!! LOL

I'm joking!! Bye girl!!

Anonymous said...

PS. It was me Kiana!!

Jessi said...

Good Point Kiana...very good Point!! LOL!!!I mean you said you "didn't want to be bothered right" ???? sike - I'm jus playing Tiffy...If it means anything...I'm here for you and I know Kiana is too!!! LOL

j.a.c. said...

uh oh T. What happened?

A woman on the move said...

I started to leave a long comment, but "I thought you needed some space"....LOL

T.C. said...

ALL of ya'll at too funny...I am good now...its good to have good sistas who have my back though...that makes it all worth while...

Learning not to sweat the small stuff...TC