Wednesday, March 28, 2007

is it jus me?

I don't know but here lately I just feel like a lot of people around me are just really negaitive...not for the most part but when it comes to love and relationships, they tend to be negative...

and I don't know why that is...but some times it feels like man, "am I the one that's crazy? do i have it jacked up? maybe they are right, there aren't any good men left out here..."

I mean is it really that 9 out of 10 times when you are dating a somenone he/she is dealing with someone else...maybe I am crazy...I don't know, but I just really don't want to believe that ALL men are dogs or that ALL men are crazy and abusive or that ALL men are liars...just like I don't believe that ALL women are tramps.....that ALL women are gold diggers...ALL women are liars...becuase I am NOT one of those women...

I just don't want to see it that way...
I mean I have made posts about the brothers before
and I think I want to stand behind that...you know...and the fact that all women aren't out here just wildin out...because me and majority of my girls aren't wildin out

I don't know what to think, or maybe I KNOW what i think but I am extra sensitive and moody and my face and hair is a MESS right now...so you know what Imma chulk it up to it being "that time of the month" and my emotions being on EDGE with everything that is going on in my life...and keep it moving...

if this post made absolutely NO sense to you...i can dig it

11 comments:

jus butterfli said...

so, i'm feelin' you on this!

can you say HATERS??? (LOL)

okay, seriously. some people jus really need to get over it and themselves! then they wonder why the hell they're ALONE!

i too am one of those people who REFUSE to believe that there are no good men out there and/or that all men are dogs! you know what? i'm jus g'on leave it at that. i was about to get crunk... i'm sure you can tell... but i digress! (LOL)

i'm FEELIN' you tho'.

peace, love and hugs!

Blu Jewel said...

Jus you aint sayin nothing but a word. the reason why there are so many hatas out there is cause those same people are the trifflin one. Those same ones kickin dirt are the ones who've dogged someone, are dogging someone, or was less than honorable in their intentions. Ladies, dont even get me started on this or i'll be blogging all up in your comments. Maybe I'll have to do my own blog on this subject. *smh*

let the hatas hate is all i can say, cause i'd rather be alone than settle...peace out my sistas

j.a.c. said...

man! you've been writing! there's no way i can catch up on your blog. I read this one though.

I say don't be naive but think for yourself. A lot of times, you can just follow your gut too.

T.C. said...

@jus-yes there are definitely some good men out here in the world...gotta be its some wonderful sistahs like us

@blu-yea I didn't want to open up the worms...but ha....

@jac-its totally about following your gut...but this wasn't about MY relationship its just about relationships in general....its just been nothing but negativity in the air...is all...

Southern_Lady said...

I can't even comment on the relationship thing. It's too much going on as far as that topic (generally speaking). But I can say that time of the month has you thinking and feeling all kinds of crazy stuff! I HATE IT! Have a great day though.

Honey-Libra said...

LOL..well me and you must be drinking from the same fountain cause I totally undestand you on this one. I know I drive folks insane contemplating and saying that all folks aren't bad and then I'm wondering maybe it's just me that wants to see the good in folks maybe I'm living in La-La land LOL

But there are good ones out there..just gotta go through lots to find them..so we can appreciate them more when they do come up. I just keep hope alive LOL

Have a wonderful weekend :)

Daneger said...

It's funny that only women have responded to this one. You know I was actually plotting on writing a blog about the flip side to this blog (being good and finding it hard to meet good people) but I have had trouble finding the time to write it lately. I think you are right about there being good men out there (I like to think I am a pretty good one myself) and I am sure there are some good women out there. I think where people get caught up is during the process of trying to funnel thru all the bad apples. It can change a persons outlook if they are hurt bad enough....makes you lose faith.

T.C. said...

@southern_lady-yes it does, EVERYTHING is highlighted..LOL

@honey-I just try to take everyone as they are...(men and women alike in general) and take them for what they are, keep ears and eyes open and let THEM tell me what they are all about in time...if you go IN thinking oh he/she is a liar blah blah blah...then you will NEVER give anyone a fair shot...and what if folks do that to you...

@dane-EXACTLY-I am so glad you got it....yes that would be a good post...because there ARE a lot of good sistahs out here too....(i believe that I am one of them)I do think its that people have been through so many bad experiences that they can't see the forest for the trees

It is What It Is... said...

I can't believe you freakin wrote this T...incredible. LOL - Mommy told me that when she read this post - she knew you were talking about my AZZ! HOLLA!!! LMAO!!!!!!

T.C. said...

@itiswhatitis-LMBO!!! well its good to know that your momma can relate...LOL...

Milesaheadoftime said...

@t.c. - This was a great topic.
@daneger - please do a flip i would love to hear what the brothers feel.
@honey- I feel you.

I am going thru a situation that would harden my heart but you can't allow it. I don't think people are aware of how hard there hearts have become when sharing their views. You have to consider the source when getting advice or listining to others views on relationships. I know there are still good people out there man/woman. I do at times have to think is it me though. TRUST YOUR GUT!! If you think somthing ain't right, lay back & keep your distance until it's revealded. I just had a revelation on a person I met a few months ago. I'm still waiting for the full picture. We must stop feeling bad for setting standards. Ask ?'s and demand proof. t.c. thanks for the invite to check your blog out.