Tuesday, April 03, 2007

the total rAndomneSS (III)

so I really like doing these random items because you know...it just lets me get stuff off my chest...cause its my house and I can say what I feel right..right!


  • allergies are seriously kicking my butt...i have them year round but these particular allergy season is serious
  • ok so what if I get on your nerves, NEWS FLASH...you truly get on my nerves too
    but its ok...like you said, you still my baby...and this much is true
  • man i haven't seen you in almost two weeks...I hope i remember what you look like
  • you know i really enjoy getting to know you, its like you are one of my best homies...we can talk about anything...everything...i actually like you...as a person I like you...
  • truth is, men are just as sensitive if not more, than women...but again, i like you...
  • i mean i actually watched the final four games with you (via phone since you were out of town) ONLY because i know how much you love Georgetown-your Alma Mater and how much you love basketball...yea i like you
  • i promised myself that I was going to get back into the gym as of April 1st, and I did it! YES...I don't think I want to lose weight so much as I want to tone up and just be physically fit...despite the media and popular opinion...I enjoy being "thick" its alright with me...i could stand to go down a size or two...but i honestly love my curves and don't want to lose that
  • you know that brings me to another point...I am totally alright with me, why is it that people feel the NEED to say stuff like "well your mother is 'thick' so you are bound to be 'thick'"...what you are really trying to say is because my mother is heavy i will be heavy so just face it...oh how skinny folks have the nerve sometimes...they don't mean any harm, but really who told you that I wasn't happy with my size...oh, that's right YOU did...bug off and go and eat something...(I know right i am OFF the HOOK)
  • i just think that too much emphasis is put on weight...you know...i mean because i have been a size 6/8 my freshman year of college, and i looked sick, literally like i was on something...my mom was like "chile EAT"
  • my brother still gets on my ever lasting nerves...dude you are 35, GROW UP already
  • i enjoyed the service last night, truly something that was a total new experience and makes me want to learn more
  • you ever notice how much more positive you are when you go to church on Sunday or you pray or you read a scripture...its like you have that protection around you...and you just keep pressing forward
  • i am looking for to Sunday service...I know that it will be packed at church but i look forward to the blessing..
  • why am i so friggin hungry at 11:30am...geesh
  • ok so i think i have my gym schedule down, Sun, Tues, Thurs, Fri/Sat...I might just go all weekend though...they say you are supposed to workout 5 times a week to lose weight and 3 times a week to maintain...so i am thinking 4 times a week to lose some, but not much and to tone is a good look right...
  • i got assigned more responsibilities at my job...that's a good sign right? my 90 days will be up on the 8th of this month...so i guess it'll be time for my review....
  • my Dad is doing so much better...his meds have been adjusted and he is doing good...happy about that...
  • i have cornrows now...i know i know...i can't keep my hair in one style to save my life...lol...but with my hair being natural i needed to put it up since i started to work it out....
  • my line sister is expecting and got engaged...happy about that...that makes 3 weddings next year so far...i still am in one in June and have one to attend in May...geeze...you gals are killing my pockets...
  • again i guess its just that season in our lives...after 25 everyone seems to be getting married
  • man i'll be 27 this year...3 years to 30...man...i think i need to really sit down and write out the goals that i want to reach before i reach 30... like do i want to get my second masters....like what things in MY life can I work towards...
  • certain people, or should i say those who are judgemental and self righteous to the extreme, get on my nerves...i encounter 1 every day...and she is starting to bother me...and she is a "christian" but has something to say about EVERYONE...i want to yell "ah HELLO, that's not the Christian thing to do..." but you know whatever...

ok so i think i am done...nothing more really to talk about...just random stuff that has been on my mind...

nothing major, I am in a good mood, life is good, everything is good...and I am happy with ME...

Stay up people...

Peace

10 comments:

Ms.Honey said...

Glad your in a wonderful mood..gotta love wedding and baby season...

AWWWW you like him :)

Being in Like is great lol

Umm what else LOL, I go to the gym about 5 times a week and I notice toning more than I notice weight lose others have noticed the weight lose though..we'll see

YEAAA for getting back in there...

jendayi said...

Yay on the gym miss lady. I started my work-out sessions too. Mondays and Wednesdays. Mondays are not working too well for me though so I may change it to Fridays. No se'.

Cornrows?!

It's a little premature to say this but I'm in like too. (I think.) I'ma lay low on this one though. Still got the same issues I ALWAYS do. Religion... distance... blah!

I miss you girlie. I need me some Tiff. Coming home next month for my mom's graduation and anniversary. See you then. Holla!

jendayi said...

oh and that's GREAT about your dad!

T.a.c.D said...

@honey-thanks girl!
I really want to tone more than anything...so we shall see
like i said i love my curves...lol

@jac-girl I feel ya...i really like the Sundays, tuesdays will be rough because mondays...so i feel you...but i am going tonight!

cornrows-like the ones you had for the cruse...i had to throw something in there really quick since my hair isn't trained yet and i can't afford the every week hair thing

yea keep it low until YOU know...don't think to hard, but just hard enough and be patient with him and allow him to be patient with you...none of us are perfect...

and YES I am in TOTAL need of some J time..I miss you too! so next month its ON

Ladies-yea i like him as a person, but my feelings are honestly deeper than like...if that makes sense...like i honestly think he is a hella cool dude on top of how i feel...

K.C. said...

well tanita I have completed your blog after several "read-and-comebacks" :)

I'm so happy to hear/read/see that your father is doing well. I knew God would work it out!

Well..you know I'm not the one to be talking about relationships, with my scared, weak, punk-azz. But I'm glad you've found someone who makes you happy and you feel most comfortable with. I think that the previous ones that I have witnessed...there was a problem with comfort...here it doesn't seem to be the case...although I still haven't seen this dude, or seen you with this dude to really tell.

I went to the gym at 5:30 this morning. Before then, I went on Saturday morning and was still hurting when I went in today. No pain no gain...and that's for real!

layne bowden said...

hey ladybug!! :)

i love your randomness!! you are one funny chick!! i was sitting here reading and looking real crazee with a big chester cheetah smile on my face. guess that means you bring me joy, huh? :D

have a wonderful day!! it's all love!!

T.a.c.D said...

@kc-you are too funny
yes there is a level of comfort that is definitely there...you'll meet him soon enough...I don't recall you sending up flags for me to meet the darlin...HELLO! In time, in time...but yes I am happy...even when he gets to me, which he does do and will do from time to time because we are so much alike and yet so different...I am happy!
and you are right, no pain no gain

@jus-thank ya kindly! you know you keep me smiling over these parts...it is all love!

Nicole Malone said...

I'm so happy you are doing you with the workout, love and living life to the fullest. But lay off the skinny girls, (Monique) ha ha ha

Blu Jewel said...

this is a great list and you know i love the random stuff. i swung by here earlier, but couldn't comment cause i was tryin my damndest to get off the plantation. the comment you made about your brother reminded me of mine. *sigh*

turning 30 will be a wonderful experince for you if you look at it as a gateway to beautiful things ahead. getting that pen and pad out is a great move.

T.a.c.D said...

@serenity-i love yall skinny heffas hell all of my girls are smaller than me...so that says something...lol

@blu-i am looking forward to turning 30...i think it will be that step across the line from young womanhood, into womanhood and watch out cause that means I am on my way into my QUEENDOM HELLO!