As a follow up to the meeting....
I now have a message...a voice message...about how the person is handling how everything went down extremely hard and just wanted to know if I was ok...
Now the disagreement took place on Saturday, there was no communication until Sunday, and that was when he disclosed that he thought we were too much alike (mind you we are a lot a like, but totally different) and yesterday at lunch time I get a voice message...one sounding like he is full of disappointment and regret...
How do I respond? With a text message...it was extremely impersonal so once I got off work I left him a voice message of my own. I tried my best to remain as professional and unfeeling as possible...but I left it at that...
Has he called? NO
Will he call? I don't know...
What will I do? That seems to be the question of the hour....a couple of my girls say, see what he says and move on from there...a couple say just let it go...my mother says...see what he says...what do I say? I say it is what it is...meaning that it will work out how its supposed to work out when its supposed to work out...right now its nothing....so that's how I will carry it...
like I said before...I will be just fine, too many other blessings to NOT be fine...
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okay i missed what happened...let me read the previous..
he's spoken; you've spoken, now let it go. the most important thing about this is what you said in closing...
"like I said before...I will be just fine, too many other blessings to NOT be fine..."
that sums everything up!!
Funny cause everytime I read your blog I be like dang I say stuff like that LOL...I'm always saying it is what it is..to the point where people be like stop saying it..but it's so true what will be will be and you can't live with anything else but what's occurred so why worry over it....and on top of that if he calls then what and if he doesn't call then what...see it just gets too complicated....I'd rather just leave it be.
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