Monday, May 18, 2009

reentering the world of....

...dating
i know i am surprised at myself...

i have a date on saturday...
he asked what i would want to do
i said anythign other than dinner and a movie
that's so pass se AND you don't get to even know the person because you are watching a movie and not talking..
i said a nice walk...there are plenty of places to go and see downtown DC where we could walk around and talk and get to know each other...
i already told dude i want soemone who is creative and wants to get out and explore and see new things and go new places...
i wonder if he is really paying attention to what it is that i said...
i'll let you all know...

i know right me a DATE i haven't been on a REAL date in years
(dude still doesn't count...that was such a blah year and a half of my life)

i don't care if we spend not one dime, that matters not...i can have a salad and water i just want to do something different and exciting...

i am actually being very much so me, just who i am with no pretenses establishing my standards and what i want out of life initially...again it will be interesting if he has been paying attention...all the talking and emailing in the world can't prepare you for that first one on one interaction, but boy oh boy you better go into it with your EYES WIDE OPEN...

i am really pulling for the guy...here's to hoping its a good first date...

5 comments:

Blu Jewel said...

I'm pulling for YOU! I'm so happy that you're taking chances and allowing yourself to feel again. Trust me, I know the trepidation of dating and getting back out there. Continue to be open and honest with your wants/needs and even your expectations as there's no harm in that.

I recently spent 3.5hrs on the phone with someone whom I'm now seeing just to find out if we really would be able to date. We played Q&A and it's worked out well.

Allow all the seredipity you can handle into your life and enjoy it sweetie; you deserve it and most of all to be HAPPY.

Anonymous said...

hope all is well u really deserve someone special. I wish it could of been me.

Deja~I~Am said...

Good Luck!!

C._.J said...

Have Fun!

MysTery said...

Uh ohhhh! Get it girl!!