Saturday, January 15, 2011
i have said it before and i will say it again
COMMUNICATION is KEY!
there is no way around that, if you can't tell the other person in your life what is going on, why you feel this way or that, or why this happened or that, heck why you are running late its going to cause a problem!
the end...put a stamp on it seal it and deliver it, i'll pay the postage for it...
why don't people get that...its not that hard to just open your mouth...its not like i grew up in the best home for communication either, however, i know that as adult you can't constantly blame what happened in your life as a child on how you behave now...so therefore you take stock you look at what it is and you make the proper adjustments so that you can have a happier and healthier life than your parents provided you, as they tried to do for you...you know we are supposed to do better than our parents right, that's what they tell us all the time...
so be better
because you know better!
period you know good and freaking well what is going on and what isn't...
people need to stop acting as if the TRUTH was some sort of crippling aliment or something
its the TRUTH straight up clear as day, black and white, nothing gray or purple or pink or red about it
it just is...and when people care about you they can accept the truth they can deal with the truth they will bare with you, why? because you told the truth
however, when you are constantly lacking the willingness to communicate and then act like communicating is the worse thing on the planet
well then i have a problem because i tend to live in black and white i don't and can't nor will i live in gray
because i don't have to