tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post8327405047037725528..comments2023-07-02T10:37:50.944-04:00Comments on GoldenTimeOfDay: i wish....T.a.c.Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-74305153285040857162010-06-09T15:54:58.131-04:002010-06-09T15:54:58.131-04:00idk what the deal is maybe the older i get the mor...idk what the deal is maybe the older i get the more secure those i will date will be and understand its not about the material...<br /><br />i've always been strong i was raised that way it is what it is...then you add being hurt you just adapt you know...<br /><br />like you said we're doing something right and when its my time it'll be my time...until then i am chillin just me...T.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-52202723511835893772010-06-09T08:36:15.571-04:002010-06-09T08:36:15.571-04:00Tiff, you are on it girl. I agree with everythign...Tiff, you are on it girl. I agree with everythign you say and I might just have to blog about that issue as well. I have many male friends and I always like to get their input on us(Black Women) just to see where their heads are. Its a shame that men(like Slim Thug) run around here putting labels on the BW like they are a catch themselves. Just because he has money, he think he can come out of his mouth wrong-NOT. Dating for me has never really been an issue BUT, I do find men that see all of my accomplishments and immediately go into panoc mode. Ive even had a dude to ask me, "what do u need a man for, you have everything" I wanted to punch him dead in the mouth. Men(all races) have a problem with the BW because of the label thathas been put on us for years. All BW aren't loud, wrong, non-domestic...its just a cop out that men use when they 1)can't have the woman they want 2)want an excuse to date outside of their race 3)financially strapped 4)non-educated...the list can go on & on. The bottom line is...as BW, we're doing something right because there's always someone trying to make excuses about us(why we're not married, why we're so angry, etc...)and always havign something to say. Stay strong babe...your King will present himself in God's time and he will embrace everything about u.Michylenoreply@blogger.com