tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post2910043275307946303..comments2023-07-02T10:37:50.944-04:00Comments on GoldenTimeOfDay: rAndomneSST.a.c.Dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-36920435359563859782007-11-29T10:47:00.000-05:002007-11-29T10:47:00.000-05:00I think i will use this...i really do!I think i will use this...i really do!T.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-12051244896017334562007-11-29T10:34:00.000-05:002007-11-29T10:34:00.000-05:00As soon as I read this, I thought of the email tha...As soon as I read this, I thought of the email that Jessi sent us. Maybe you guys can meditate on the scriptural means to a relationship?<BR/><BR/>"Practical ways a man can love his wife like Christ loved the church.<BR/>1. Remember she is God’s gift to you. Proverbs 18:22 proverbs 25:24<BR/>2. Put her first,(sacrifice your time, your money, etc.)<BR/>3. let your words be kind<BR/>4. respect her opinions<BR/>5. be tender and gentle<BR/>6. let her know she is the only one<BR/>7. tell her you love her every day<BR/>8. don’t just show physical affection when you want intercourse Proverbs<BR/>5:18-19<BR/>9. Fight fair Proverbs 15:4 Proverbs 16:32 James 1:19-20<BR/>10. Learn to do hobbies she likes to do<BR/>11. Compliment her in public<BR/>12. Let your words be kind<BR/>13. Listen to her don’t lecture<BR/>14. Accept her for who she is<BR/>15.-100: ….spend a life time loving her<BR/><BR/>We must balance out the love and respect each spouse wants by looking at what scripture<BR/>teaches! We will attempt to distinguish between cultural norms of the ancient world, and<BR/>the timeless teachings and spiritual principles of the Bible that we should use today. Why?<BR/>Because we all need and should want our homes and relationships based upon God’s perfect<BR/>plan. Ephesians 5:33 Colossians 3:18-21 The true head of the family is Christ! When we all<BR/>serve Christ everything else falls in place. Proverbs 17:1-2"jendayihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08284491770040011453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-2987558917287859452007-11-28T13:12:00.000-05:002007-11-28T13:12:00.000-05:00@ms. c-yes life lessons keep coming, left and righ...@ms. c-yes life lessons keep coming, left and right...<BR/><BR/>@ki-its hard trying to get to that point...being single and self sufficient for so long is good if you are single but when in a committed relationship, not so much...so finding this balance is hard<BR/><BR/>@trapped-he is worth it, but sometimes he gets on my ever lasting nerves!T.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-2409252904785334382007-11-28T06:53:00.000-05:002007-11-28T06:53:00.000-05:00WOW...alot of emotions but they're real and I can ...WOW...alot of emotions but they're real and I can identify. Relationships are WORK, COMPROMISE & CHANGE(for the better). I too am learning to adapt to letting the man lead...I know that I want to be able to let go and let the man that I love direct...in some instances, I can handle it, in others I'm having problems so...when u feel that the man you're involved with is "truly" the man for you, than everything will begin to fall in place-trust me. Life has a way of beating us down but God will turn everything around if you just be still, he will reveal everything to u in time...keep your head up.Trapped-n-my-Thoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16754757775359786663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-51601356925472145952007-11-27T14:30:00.000-05:002007-11-27T14:30:00.000-05:00One thing I do understand is learning how to submi...One thing I do understand is learning how to submit to your husband, but you aren't married yet, so it's another story. But my situation is totally different going into marriage FIRST and THEN into counseling. God literally BROKE me down, I had no job for 8 months, no independence, and no friends here in SC. So it was a matter of almost losing my independence as to who I am, I was trying to be Kiana Bradshaw still vs. Kiana Lanier. It's all a process Tiff! And we might not want to hear it, but it's all in God's timing. But when it happens for you and "Your Love", it'll be GREAT!! You are a good woman, so it's coming.<BR/><BR/>KianaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29949903.post-75200718780695944682007-11-27T11:34:00.000-05:002007-11-27T11:34:00.000-05:00First!!!You're not alone in this struggle of under...First!!!<BR/><BR/>You're not alone in this struggle of understanding LIFE.<BR/><BR/>:)Ms. Confessionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12040573830472726532noreply@blogger.com